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Pillow Talk

Whispering sweet nothings at the right time can lead to passionate payoffs. Talking in bed have better communication and happier relationships.

If you have fallen into the habit of watching TV or reading silently in bed every night, try mixing things up.  Conversation often precedes intimate sex. 

Don’t just talk about the program on TV, the book you are reading, or the mundane things that have happened that day.  Rekindle the passion with sexy pillow talk.  Think back to the days when you cuddled together and whispered together.  You told of your love, your secrets, your wishes, and your dreams.  This intimacy was as important as the actual physical lovemaking.

Just as Cyrano de Bergerac wood Roxanne with his eloquent words about her beauty and charms, you can use language to seduce your partner.  While not everyone is as gifted as Cyrano was, remember that what you say can be less important than how you say it.  Expressing yourself in a tender way when you are in close contact with your spouse is quite seductive.

Also keep in mind that pillow talk doesn’t need to always lead to sex.  It can be erotic or loving.  Men and women alike like to hear how much they are loved and appreciated.

There are different types of love talk.  Figure out which kind you and your lover are in order to match your language with how your partner will best respond.

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• Creative – These people have active imaginations.  They enjoy unique and vividly described fantasies.  They will be happy to play charades and spin exciting tales filled with promises about future love encounters.

• Romantics – More often women than men, the romantic blossoms on intimacy, shared feelings and dreams.  They use the word “feel” rather than “think.  They speak more of love than sex.

• Conservative – A conservative might feel uncomfortable talking about feelings, but they need security.  You should do the talking reminding them of the wonderful times you have spent together.  Reassure them that everything in the relationship is going well.

• Intellectual – The intellectual is stimulated by lively debate.  They are often excited by banter and an exchange of opinions.  Intellectuals are more often men than women.  They want to hear they are loved for their bodies but like to believe that they are also appreciated by their quick minds.

Many people report that the most pleasurable part of pillow talk is hearing their own name or their partner’s pet name for them spoken.  Keep in mind that if a person has a name like “honey” that he applies to all women, he needs to come up with a separate, special name for his wife.

Reassure and compliment your partner.  When you tell your spouse things like “you’re funny,” it comes across especially strong when you are cuddled close.  When your partner is feeling insecure about life in general, telling her “I find you as exciting as when we first met” can bolster her confidence about her entire life.

Don’t criticize your partner during pillow talk.  Intimacy should allow you to share fear and anxieties and harping on any inadequacies will destroy that opportunity.  Nobody likes to hear about their character flaws, bad habits or sexual problems, and you certainly don’t want to bring them up in this intimate setting.

Never fight or have troubling conversations in bed.  Make your bed a safe place where you sleep and have pleasure.  If you start to fight in bed, your partner can associate the feelings of being trapped and sabotaged which can diminish his or her willingness to spend relaxing time in bed.

Article 7 will be on "Physical Fitness Is Seductive" and will also conclude this series of articles on the "The Art of Seduction".
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Pillow Talk

Whispering sweet nothings at the right time can lead to passionate payoffs. Talking in bed have better communication and happier relationships.

If you have fallen into the habit of watching TV or reading silently in bed every night, try mixing things up.  Conversation often precedes intimate sex. 

Don’t just talk about the program on TV, the book you are reading, or the mundane things that have happened that day.  Rekindle the passion with sexy pillow talk.  Think back to the days when you cuddled together and whispered together.  You told of your love, your secrets, your wishes, and your dreams.  This intimacy was as important as the actual physical lovemaking.

Just as Cyrano de Bergerac wood Roxanne with his eloquent words about her beauty and charms, you can use language to seduce your partner.  While not everyone is as gifted as Cyrano was, remember that what you say can be less important than how you say it.  Expressing yourself in a tender way when you are in close contact with your spouse is quite seductive.

Also keep in mind that pillow talk doesn’t need to always lead to sex.  It can be erotic or loving.  Men and women alike like to hear how much they are loved and appreciated.

There are different types of love talk.  Figure out which kind you and your lover are in order to match your language with how your partner will best respond.

The Magic of Making Up tips

• Creative – These people have active imaginations.  They enjoy unique and vividly described fantasies.  They will be happy to play charades and spin exciting tales filled with promises about future love encounters.

• Romantics – More often women than men, the romantic blossoms on intimacy, shared feelings and dreams.  They use the word “feel” rather than “think.  They speak more of love than sex.

• Conservative – A conservative might feel uncomfortable talking about feelings, but they need security.  You should do the talking reminding them of the wonderful times you have spent together.  Reassure them that everything in the relationship is going well.

• Intellectual – The intellectual is stimulated by lively debate.  They are often excited by banter and an exchange of opinions.  Intellectuals are more often men than women.  They want to hear they are loved for their bodies but like to believe that they are also appreciated by their quick minds.

Many people report that the most pleasurable part of pillow talk is hearing their own name or their partner’s pet name for them spoken.  Keep in mind that if a person has a name like “honey” that he applies to all women, he needs to come up with a separate, special name for his wife.

Reassure and compliment your partner.  When you tell your spouse things like “you’re funny,” it comes across especially strong when you are cuddled close.  When your partner is feeling insecure about life in general, telling her “I find you as exciting as when we first met” can bolster her confidence about her entire life.

Don’t criticize your partner during pillow talk.  Intimacy should allow you to share fear and anxieties and harping on any inadequacies will destroy that opportunity.  Nobody likes to hear about their character flaws, bad habits or sexual problems, and you certainly don’t want to bring them up in this intimate setting.

Never fight or have troubling conversations in bed.  Make your bed a safe place where you sleep and have pleasure.  If you start to fight in bed, your partner can associate the feelings of being trapped and sabotaged which can diminish his or her willingness to spend relaxing time in bed.

Article 7 will be on "Physical Fitness Is Seductive" and will also conclude this series of articles on the "The Art of Seduction".
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A Seductive Feast

There are romantic meals and then there are seductive feasts.  What makes the difference.

A romantic meal has elements of seduction but tends to be more staid.  Romantic dinners can also be limited by the amount of time involved both for the meal and for the lovemaking that will follow.

In a seductive feast, every aspect of the meal is designed to awaken pleasure for the mind and boy.  It is designed to lead to sensual lovemaking and develop arousal.

One common scenario is a late night supper for two.  But, it is possible to step outside of this routine.  For instance, a Sunday brunch leaves time to make love for the rest of the day. 

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There are five elements for a seductive feast:

1. The Setting.  You’ll want the setting to match your fantasies.  You can do it indoors, outdoors, or in bed.  You can “recreate” your dining room through elaborate decoration.  One couple draped the dining room in printed sheets to simulate the inside of a Bedouin tent.

2. Planning.  Do your best to make this the best experience you can.  Some couples do all of the shopping and cooking together.  Other times, one person cooks as a gift to the other.  Still others have the meal catered.  Whatever option you choose, do it with the best.  For instance, pick the best peaches of the season or the most expensive chocolate.

3. Food.  While there’s little proof that food has aphrodisiac qualities, there are still foods that represent love.  They get you in the mood for sex.  These include oysters, turffles, vanilla, and wine.  You should avoid greasy, salty, heavy or commonplace foods.  Remember that the smell of the food and the cooking influences people in different ways too.  Shapes and colors of food can be suggestive.  Keep all of your senses in mind when you select the menu.  Another thing to think about is whether you want to eat after the lovemaking session rather than before.  Rather than being too full for sex, the passion can leave you hungry for good food.  Alternatively, make love between the main course and desert.  Finally, consider a “gate dinner” where sensuous food is served to each other off of body parts.

4. Wine.  A good wine or champagne can be an important part of the meal.  They are sexier than beer, soda, tea, or coffee.  Research shows that a moderate amount of alcohol can relax you and stimulate your senses.  Too much though can ruin sexual desire and performance so both partners should be aware of the amount they drink.  Also, alcohol is obviously not appropriate for people who abstain, who are alcoholics, or are in recovery.  In these cases, try to have a romantic drink such as sparkling apple cider.

5. Atmosphere.  Remember that you want to play to all the senses – not just the taste buds.  Consider what music you want to play softly in the background.  A jazz CD or a romantic vocalist can set the right tone.  Don’t pick music that is too fast which causes you to rush or too loud which is distracting.  Wear comfortable clothing that arouses both you and your mate.

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A Seductive Feast

There are romantic meals and then there are seductive feasts.  What makes the difference.

A romantic meal has elements of seduction but tends to be more staid.  Romantic dinners can also be limited by the amount of time involved both for the meal and for the lovemaking that will follow.

In a seductive feast, every aspect of the meal is designed to awaken pleasure for the mind and boy.  It is designed to lead to sensual lovemaking and develop arousal.

One common scenario is a late night supper for two.  But, it is possible to step outside of this routine.  For instance, a Sunday brunch leaves time to make love for the rest of the day. 

Best Ways To Get Her Back

There are five elements for a seductive feast:

1. The Setting.  You’ll want the setting to match your fantasies.  You can do it indoors, outdoors, or in bed.  You can “recreate” your dining room through elaborate decoration.  One couple draped the dining room in printed sheets to simulate the inside of a Bedouin tent.

2. Planning.  Do your best to make this the best experience you can.  Some couples do all of the shopping and cooking together.  Other times, one person cooks as a gift to the other.  Still others have the meal catered.  Whatever option you choose, do it with the best.  For instance, pick the best peaches of the season or the most expensive chocolate.

3. Food.  While there’s little proof that food has aphrodisiac qualities, there are still foods that represent love.  They get you in the mood for sex.  These include oysters, turffles, vanilla, and wine.  You should avoid greasy, salty, heavy or commonplace foods.  Remember that the smell of the food and the cooking influences people in different ways too.  Shapes and colors of food can be suggestive.  Keep all of your senses in mind when you select the menu.  Another thing to think about is whether you want to eat after the lovemaking session rather than before.  Rather than being too full for sex, the passion can leave you hungry for good food.  Alternatively, make love between the main course and desert.  Finally, consider a “gate dinner” where sensuous food is served to each other off of body parts.

4. Wine.  A good wine or champagne can be an important part of the meal.  They are sexier than beer, soda, tea, or coffee.  Research shows that a moderate amount of alcohol can relax you and stimulate your senses.  Too much though can ruin sexual desire and performance so both partners should be aware of the amount they drink.  Also, alcohol is obviously not appropriate for people who abstain, who are alcoholics, or are in recovery.  In these cases, try to have a romantic drink such as sparkling apple cider.

5. Atmosphere.  Remember that you want to play to all the senses – not just the taste buds.  Consider what music you want to play softly in the background.  A jazz CD or a romantic vocalist can set the right tone.  Don’t pick music that is too fast which causes you to rush or too loud which is distracting.  Wear comfortable clothing that arouses both you and your mate.

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How to Heighten Your Senses

Many people have never allowed themselves to be sensual.  But, sensual people tend to be good lovers because they use their senses to heighten their awareness and their partner’s pleasure. 

If you are not comfortable with seduction through sensuality, consider these tips:

• Awaken your senses by reveling in taste, smell, sight, touch and sound in all situations – not just romantic ones.  Try experimenting with new food spices and flavors.  Burn scented candles at work.  Introduce new colors in your wardrobe, especially in accessories.

• Pay attention to your surroundings.  Don’t miss the first buds or spring or the first leaves of autumn.  Tak in the beauty of ice covered branches.  Don’t be so busy rushing past to quickly to miss these experiences. 

• Feel when you touch.  When you shake hands with someone, take some time to really experience what it feels like.  Run your hands across fabrics, the petals of flowers, and other everyday items to increase the sense of touch.  When you do this, you will be able to concentrate on the touch of your lovers skin which enhances your sexuality.

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When you do these simple exercises, you will feel more sensouous.  This will also enliven your seductive skills.

How to Flirt With Your Partner

Flirting is practiced more by people who aren’t in relationship than those who are in them.  But this is a shame because committed lovers can gain much from playing this traditional love game.

Some examples of flirting include smiles, direct eye contact and double entendres. 

Flirting is not just about sex.  It is also about feeling good about yourself and the other person.  You let the other person know that he or she is attractive and desirable when you flirt.  Flirting doesn’t have to lead to sex, it’s just a good way to connect.

When people are involved with and committed to each other, they often stop flirting out of a fear of rejection.  They think they don’t need to do it anymore.  If you recognize these resistances in yourself, you should try to overcome them.

You can flirt in romantic settings such as a walk on the beach at sunset.  You can also flirt when there is no opportunity for sex.  This is a way to connect in “ordinary” situations such as standing in line at the movies or on the way out the door to work.

Flirting can include meaningful eye contact, touching, suggestive body language, asking sexy question or talking in whispers or coy teasing remarks and double meanings. 

Don’t be shy about flirting in front of other people.  Often, your friends will admire and envy you for the quality of your relationship.

Article 5 in this series on "The Art of Seduction" will discuss "A Seductive Feast".
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How to Heighten Your Senses

Many people have never allowed themselves to be sensual.  But, sensual people tend to be good lovers because they use their senses to heighten their awareness and their partner’s pleasure. 

If you are not comfortable with seduction through sensuality, consider these tips:

• Awaken your senses by reveling in taste, smell, sight, touch and sound in all situations – not just romantic ones.  Try experimenting with new food spices and flavors.  Burn scented candles at work.  Introduce new colors in your wardrobe, especially in accessories.

• Pay attention to your surroundings.  Don’t miss the first buds or spring or the first leaves of autumn.  Tak in the beauty of ice covered branches.  Don’t be so busy rushing past to quickly to miss these experiences. 

• Feel when you touch.  When you shake hands with someone, take some time to really experience what it feels like.  Run your hands across fabrics, the petals of flowers, and other everyday items to increase the sense of touch.  When you do this, you will be able to concentrate on the touch of your lovers skin which enhances your sexuality.

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When you do these simple exercises, you will feel more sensouous.  This will also enliven your seductive skills.

How to Flirt With Your Partner

Flirting is practiced more by people who aren’t in relationship than those who are in them.  But this is a shame because committed lovers can gain much from playing this traditional love game.

Some examples of flirting include smiles, direct eye contact and double entendres. 

Flirting is not just about sex.  It is also about feeling good about yourself and the other person.  You let the other person know that he or she is attractive and desirable when you flirt.  Flirting doesn’t have to lead to sex, it’s just a good way to connect.

When people are involved with and committed to each other, they often stop flirting out of a fear of rejection.  They think they don’t need to do it anymore.  If you recognize these resistances in yourself, you should try to overcome them.

You can flirt in romantic settings such as a walk on the beach at sunset.  You can also flirt when there is no opportunity for sex.  This is a way to connect in “ordinary” situations such as standing in line at the movies or on the way out the door to work.

Flirting can include meaningful eye contact, touching, suggestive body language, asking sexy question or talking in whispers or coy teasing remarks and double meanings. 

Don’t be shy about flirting in front of other people.  Often, your friends will admire and envy you for the quality of your relationship.

Article 5 in this series on "The Art of Seduction" will discuss "A Seductive Feast".
Meanwhile here is A Phenomenal Innovation In Relation Support and Love Advice!

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Seduction Tips

Do you wonder how to go about seducing your partner?  Here are 12 seduction tips:

1. Close the physical distance – There’s a psychology term called “safe personal distance” which is about two feet apart.  When you move in closer and linger there, you are saying that you are interested in your partner.  After a few seconds, step back.  This encourage your partner to advance.  You are doing a kind of dance without music.

2. Mirror image – Copy your mate’s responses and positions.  When he puts his hand to his mouth, you do the same.  This sends a subtle signal that the two of you are in tune.

3. Repeat what he’s said – You can show that you care about him by repeating what he’s said earlier in the conversation

4. Use her name frequently – There’s something powerful about “naming” someone.  When you use her name, you are calling her out.  You are telling her that she is a real person to you.

5. Wear something sexy – What is sexy varies from person to person so don’t just go by the Victoria’s Secret catalog.  Figure out what he responds to and wear it.  He might be more aroused by the sight of you in a man’s white shirt than by a garter belt.

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6. Groom in front of your partner – Some men find watching their partner put on lipstick to be very seductive.  Some women find watching their man shave to be erotic.

7. Dress in front of your partner - There’s something about watching a woman slip into a pair of very high shoes that can turn some men on.

8. Tell your secrets – When you tell your partner something you’ve never shared with anyone else, you seal the bond between you. 

9. Physical contact – Non-sexual physical contact shows sexual interest.  Run your finger down her cheek, the curve of her throat, or the inside of her wrist.

10. Take advantage of the power of smell – Use scent to enhance the erotic connection.  A lot of women’s frgrances now contain vanilla because this has been found by researchers to be particularly attractive to men.

11. Take care of your spouse.  When you do his  or her chores, run an errand you weren’t asked to run, or are especially tender and comforting, you are showing you really care.  This can be a powerful seduction technique even though many people wouldn’t think of putting it in this category ordinarily.

12. Be a kid again – By doing something utterly frivolous, you enhance the “fun” factor which often leads to making passionate love.  For instance, make snow angels together or cut out a string of paper dolls to give to your mate.

One specific flirting technique is the “eye lock.”  In this technique, you look deep into each others eyes for as long as you can.  This is no child’s game of “dare.”  Instead, it is a way to look into your partner’s soul.

Article 4 in this series of articles on "The Art of Seduction" will pick up on "How To Heighten Your Senses".

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