Why women freak out around a man & unknowingly do things which push him away...

Do you know what happens when a woman goes through a difficult
situation with a man?

She keeps freaking out...I call it the freak out syndrome. This is
how the cycle runs...

A woman finds herself in a difficult situation with a man...

She doesn't understand why he's doing what he's doing...

She then tries to do what she assumes is the right thing but it
doesn't work...

She then feels stuck & eventually freaks out.

It's no surprise why so many women are leading a life of silent
desperation.

The point I am trying to make here is that when women drive
themselves completely nuts by freaking out over and over again, it
messes them up completely over time.

But it doesn't stop here...

In fact! Under such a situation a woman unknowingly does things
which push a man further away...
Here are the two most common routes women take...

1- They first try to convince a man.
2- And when the first option doesn't work, they try to argue
their way into his head.

I don't know why but women have this inner belief that if they
can just explain their situation to a man he will somehow get it...

Guess what? It doesn't really work that way. You can never make
him understand your situation when you try hard to drill your point
into his head. In fact! The harder you try, the further he will
pull himself.

And when convincing him doesn't work, they take the second
route, which is to argue or fight and finally when things get
really bad, they use blame and guilt to get their point across.

Let me explain this with a good example...

Let's say your man is starting to get distant & you fear
that maybe he is planning to leave you. You first try to understand
why he is getting distant, but things aren't making any sense,
as a result you freak out.

Next, you try to talk to him about it, you say things like -

Honey! I don't know why you are avoiding me like this, what
have I done? Are you planning to leave me? Have you found someone
else? I need answers.

And you still don't get the answers you need and as a result
your anxiety is starting to turn into anger. You feel that you
deserve answers from him...And in the process you say things like...

I am sick & tired of not getting answers from you. You
aren't pulling your share of weight in the relationship, I feel
like I am doing all the work. You only care about yourself.

This is a major mistake which can literally shake the foundation of
a relationship. When you use this approach a man only feels
attacked and his first reaction is to get even more distant to
avoid confrontation.

It's important to understand that you can't hold a gun to
his head & make him get it. You are following an utterly
hopeless strategy if you think you can.

There is a better way - There are things you can do & say which
will naturally make a man want to open up to you, give you all the
love you need and be devoted to you for the rest of his life. Follow
this link right now to discover it...

=>>>     READ A MAN

Why women freak out around a man & unknowingly do things which push him away...

Do you know what happens when a woman goes through a difficult
situation with a man?

She keeps freaking out...I call it the freak out syndrome. This is
how the cycle runs...

A woman finds herself in a difficult situation with a man...

She doesn't understand why he's doing what he's doing...

She then tries to do what she assumes is the right thing but it
doesn't work...

She then feels stuck & eventually freaks out.

It's no surprise why so many women are leading a life of silent
desperation.

The point I am trying to make here is that when women drive
themselves completely nuts by freaking out over and over again, it
messes them up completely over time.

But it doesn't stop here...

In fact! Under such a situation a woman unknowingly does things
which push a man further away...
Here are the two most common routes women take...

1- They first try to convince a man.
2- And when the first option doesn't work, they try to argue
their way into his head.

I don't know why but women have this inner belief that if they
can just explain their situation to a man he will somehow get it...

Guess what? It doesn't really work that way. You can never make
him understand your situation when you try hard to drill your point
into his head. In fact! The harder you try, the further he will
pull himself.

And when convincing him doesn't work, they take the second
route, which is to argue or fight and finally when things get
really bad, they use blame and guilt to get their point across.

Let me explain this with a good example...

Let's say your man is starting to get distant & you fear
that maybe he is planning to leave you. You first try to understand
why he is getting distant, but things aren't making any sense,
as a result you freak out.

Next, you try to talk to him about it, you say things like -

Honey! I don't know why you are avoiding me like this, what
have I done? Are you planning to leave me? Have you found someone
else? I need answers.

And you still don't get the answers you need and as a result
your anxiety is starting to turn into anger. You feel that you
deserve answers from him...And in the process you say things like...

I am sick & tired of not getting answers from you. You
aren't pulling your share of weight in the relationship, I feel
like I am doing all the work. You only care about yourself.

This is a major mistake which can literally shake the foundation of
a relationship. When you use this approach a man only feels
attacked and his first reaction is to get even more distant to
avoid confrontation.

It's important to understand that you can't hold a gun to
his head & make him get it. You are following an utterly
hopeless strategy if you think you can.

There is a better way - There are things you can do & say which
will naturally make a man want to open up to you, give you all the
love you need and be devoted to you for the rest of his life. Follow
this link right now to discover it...

=>>>     READ A MAN

Being There Helping Your Partner Come Out To Their Parents

A great many gay people these days are becoming more and more comfortable with being public about their sexual orientation, but there are still a multitude of families that harbor traditional values. If you find yourself in a relationship with a gay man or woman that is still in the closet, there are a few things you can do to ease the situation and handle it with maturity.

The most important thing for you to do is not push your lover too hard to out themselves. Business in the bedroom really is personal. Much how a young person wouldn’t want to, or need to, tell their parents that they lost their virginity, being homosexual really isn’t that different. It’s personal. If you really find it important for them to come out to their parents, then tell them why. Tell them how you want to be with them openly, without having to hide or feel like an embarrassment. Let them know that it makes you feel small and unwanted to sneak around or pretend to be a “friend.”  The first step is talking about it and how you feel.
If they decide to come out, the next step is keeping drama to a minimum. You may find yourself offended, or even intimidated by the views of the family, but if your partner wants you to be there, stay strong and confident.

You want to be friendly regardless of any harsh or hurt words that may be thrown your way. Some families come to terms with it easier, as it is becoming more modern and accepted, but you need to be aware that some families can over react a good bit. It may be hard to remain cool and collected under certain pressure or criticisms, but the best thing you can do is try.
If your partner decides to do it alone, and you are concerned about how the family will react, stay close to them. Keep your phone on you in case they need you, and stay within a close distance of their home. Their family may not react too poorly, but it never hurts to be cautious. Some families are just better off handling it alone.

There’s really not a wrong way for your partner to go about it, because once it’s said, that’s it. As soon as the words are out there, there’s no taking them back. So be sure your partner knows that there won’t be any going back when it’s all said and done.
One of the hardest things about being in a relationship with someone who is still in the closet is if they decide to stay there. If you talk to your partner about your concerns and you tell them how it makes you feel, but they still decide to stay hidden, then you’re going to have to make a choice. Would you be able to hide with them, or would you need to live out loud? That’s the decision you’ll have to make.

Being There Helping Your Partner Come Out To Their Parents

A great many gay people these days are becoming more and more comfortable with being public about their sexual orientation, but there are still a multitude of families that harbor traditional values. If you find yourself in a relationship with a gay man or woman that is still in the closet, there are a few things you can do to ease the situation and handle it with maturity.

The most important thing for you to do is not push your lover too hard to out themselves. Business in the bedroom really is personal. Much how a young person wouldn’t want to, or need to, tell their parents that they lost their virginity, being homosexual really isn’t that different. It’s personal. If you really find it important for them to come out to their parents, then tell them why. Tell them how you want to be with them openly, without having to hide or feel like an embarrassment. Let them know that it makes you feel small and unwanted to sneak around or pretend to be a “friend.”  The first step is talking about it and how you feel.
If they decide to come out, the next step is keeping drama to a minimum. You may find yourself offended, or even intimidated by the views of the family, but if your partner wants you to be there, stay strong and confident.

You want to be friendly regardless of any harsh or hurt words that may be thrown your way. Some families come to terms with it easier, as it is becoming more modern and accepted, but you need to be aware that some families can over react a good bit. It may be hard to remain cool and collected under certain pressure or criticisms, but the best thing you can do is try.
If your partner decides to do it alone, and you are concerned about how the family will react, stay close to them. Keep your phone on you in case they need you, and stay within a close distance of their home. Their family may not react too poorly, but it never hurts to be cautious. Some families are just better off handling it alone.

There’s really not a wrong way for your partner to go about it, because once it’s said, that’s it. As soon as the words are out there, there’s no taking them back. So be sure your partner knows that there won’t be any going back when it’s all said and done.
One of the hardest things about being in a relationship with someone who is still in the closet is if they decide to stay there. If you talk to your partner about your concerns and you tell them how it makes you feel, but they still decide to stay hidden, then you’re going to have to make a choice. Would you be able to hide with them, or would you need to live out loud? That’s the decision you’ll have to make.

Article 1 In a Series of Articles on Its In The Stars

Introduction

“What’s your sign?” has been a pick up line since singles’ bars have been around.  In casual conversation, it provides a starting point for talk.  But, is there more to astrology when it comes to relationships? 

Astrology is much more complicated than simple sun signs.  Other planetary influences have a great deal to do with what makes up a person.

But star signs are the single most determinant facet of the astrological chart.  They paint, in broad strokes, a person’s personality.  They determine whether the person wants to chase or be chased, whether they will open their soul to you or keep it close to the vest.  You’ll find some star signs tend to like art museums while others like kayaking more.

If you are at a critical juncture at your life, you may find that a men of a certain sign might fit your current situation better than others.  If you are looking for a rebound relationship, an Aquarius man is just right for you, for instance.  But, that would be a bad choice if you are ready to settle down.

Keep in mind too that your sign is an important component to the relationship.  A Taurus woman is the perfect complement for some signs and toxic for others. 

The Magic of Making Up and Love Again

If you are looking for your perfect match, this guide will give you a broad outline of the kinds of men found under each star sign.
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Aries

Aries is the sign of the Ram.  Aries are born between March 22 and April 21.

An Aries man believes in love at first sight.  Once he has his eyes on you, he will stop at nothing to get you.  The chase is part of the attraction, so don’t be too easy to get right away.  He loves what he can’t get.  He also loves to win and loves winners.  He is especially drawn to witty, independent women. 

The Aries man wants a woman to flatter his ego.  But, be careful not to overdo it as this can have the opposite effect of what you want. Try to always be dynamic and straightforward.

Once you’ve landed your Aries man, you will find that your relationship is an adventure.  One person described dating an Aries man as “playing bowling with grenades.” 

Aries men are very generous with their time and money.  This kind of generosity is rare these days.  You’ll probably never have to pick up a check when dating an Aries man.  You will also find yourself on the receiving end of many gifts.

When an Aries man loves you, he really loves you.  It’s not ambiguous.  It is a fierce and fiery hot passion. 

He will tend to be somewhat idealistic.  You may find him overly so at times.  He wants to be the Romeo to your Juliet which can make you exhausted.  He can become quite grumpy if he feels like you are not living up to his idealistic view of you.

Aries men tend to love their freedom.  They will also allow you to have yours.  Possessive women tend to have problems with Aries men.  But you don’t have to worry about his loyalty. 

To keep an Aries man, you have to be a constant challenge for him.  Don’t let him dominate you.  Give him the thrill of having to try all of the time.

Article 1 In a Series of Articles on Its In The Stars

Introduction

“What’s your sign?” has been a pick up line since singles’ bars have been around.  In casual conversation, it provides a starting point for talk.  But, is there more to astrology when it comes to relationships? 

Astrology is much more complicated than simple sun signs.  Other planetary influences have a great deal to do with what makes up a person.

But star signs are the single most determinant facet of the astrological chart.  They paint, in broad strokes, a person’s personality.  They determine whether the person wants to chase or be chased, whether they will open their soul to you or keep it close to the vest.  You’ll find some star signs tend to like art museums while others like kayaking more.

If you are at a critical juncture at your life, you may find that a men of a certain sign might fit your current situation better than others.  If you are looking for a rebound relationship, an Aquarius man is just right for you, for instance.  But, that would be a bad choice if you are ready to settle down.

Keep in mind too that your sign is an important component to the relationship.  A Taurus woman is the perfect complement for some signs and toxic for others. 

The Magic of Making Up and Love Again

If you are looking for your perfect match, this guide will give you a broad outline of the kinds of men found under each star sign.
‘
Aries

Aries is the sign of the Ram.  Aries are born between March 22 and April 21.

An Aries man believes in love at first sight.  Once he has his eyes on you, he will stop at nothing to get you.  The chase is part of the attraction, so don’t be too easy to get right away.  He loves what he can’t get.  He also loves to win and loves winners.  He is especially drawn to witty, independent women. 

The Aries man wants a woman to flatter his ego.  But, be careful not to overdo it as this can have the opposite effect of what you want. Try to always be dynamic and straightforward.

Once you’ve landed your Aries man, you will find that your relationship is an adventure.  One person described dating an Aries man as “playing bowling with grenades.” 

Aries men are very generous with their time and money.  This kind of generosity is rare these days.  You’ll probably never have to pick up a check when dating an Aries man.  You will also find yourself on the receiving end of many gifts.

When an Aries man loves you, he really loves you.  It’s not ambiguous.  It is a fierce and fiery hot passion. 

He will tend to be somewhat idealistic.  You may find him overly so at times.  He wants to be the Romeo to your Juliet which can make you exhausted.  He can become quite grumpy if he feels like you are not living up to his idealistic view of you.

Aries men tend to love their freedom.  They will also allow you to have yours.  Possessive women tend to have problems with Aries men.  But you don’t have to worry about his loyalty. 

To keep an Aries man, you have to be a constant challenge for him.  Don’t let him dominate you.  Give him the thrill of having to try all of the time.