Steps To A Happier Healthier Relationship

Welcome; todays article Steps To A Happier Healthier Relationship makes me think of something like; easier said then done. The steps in the article is essential in  a happy relationship and it may not be easy to implement everyone of them all of the time but focus on one or two of them to start with. As they become your second nature you can add more of them and soon enough you will be on the highway to the relation you dream of. If you would prefer some changes regarding your partner it will probably come as a bonus to your changed behaviour. You see its easier to change yourself then someone else. 

Light and Love

Dick Scott

Author, Poet, Musician, Reiki Master, Digital entrepreneur

If you’re like most people, you probably set some New Year’s resolutions at the beginning of the year. You may have resolved to lose weight, exercise more, be more productive, or even change careers. There are so many different things that you can promise you’ll do to improve your quality of life. If you’re in a relationship, you may want to put making that relationship more open and honest at the top of your list. Many couples tend to just let their relationships take care of themselves and hope that the issues just take care of themselves. Then they’ll argue every day and start disliking each other.

Ignoring your relationship isn’t the best way to keep it going in a positive direction. If you want your relationship to be a happy one, you have to work on it. There are some things that you can do to keep your relationship going strong as well as continually happy.

Have a look at these following tips to help improve your relationship:

Say the magic words: Telling your partner “thank you” and asking “please” shows them how much they’re appreciated. It also prevents you from taking them for granted.

Get physical: Grab your partner’s butt to show them how hot you think they are.

Kiss each morning: This promises to get your day off to a great start.

Greet each other with a “good morning”: Acknowledgement of each other daily shows how much you care.

Make time to cuddle: Physical closeness goes a long way to keeping warmth, excitement and love in a relationship.

Don’t isolate yourselves: Resolve to get out at least once a week together with family or friends.

Don’t over use pet names: When you use them too much, it can end up keeping you from taking each other seriously, which can damage your relationship.

Practice listening skills: Couples need to listen to each other as well as be able to communicate effectively.

Take turns doing the dishes or loading the dishwasher: Sharing chores can keep your relationship on equal footing.

Be honest: You should be honest with each other even when it’s not easy.

Play the Decision Game: When neither of you can decide which restaurant you want to eat at or what movie you want to see, one of you names 5 choices. The other partner vetoes 2 of these. The first partner then eliminates the last 2. Now you have your decision.

Respect each other’s private space: This is particularly important when you live together. Each of you should have a place to retreat to for a little while to have time to yourselves.
When you follow these simple steps to improving your relationship and keeping it happy, you’ll find that this was the best resolution of them all. You and your partner will continue to have a healthy relationship in which you can both feel comfortable and excited about. Also, when you really think about it, these steps are actually things that you should have been doing all along.

Thanx for reading through the whole article and please feel free to read more of my articles and pages on HowToGetLoverBack and also check out my other blogs;)

Dick Scott

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Steps To A Happier Healthier Relationship

Welcome; todays article Steps To A Happier Healthier Relationship makes me think of something like; easier said then done. The steps in the article is essential in  a happy relationship and it may not be easy to implement everyone of them all of the time but focus on one or two of them to start with. As they become your second nature you can add more of them and soon enough you will be on the highway to the relation you dream of. If you would prefer some changes regarding your partner it will probably come as a bonus to your changed behaviour. You see its easier to change yourself then someone else. 

Light and Love

Dick Scott

Author, Poet, Musician, Reiki Master, Digital entrepreneur

If you’re like most people, you probably set some New Year’s resolutions at the beginning of the year. You may have resolved to lose weight, exercise more, be more productive, or even change careers. There are so many different things that you can promise you’ll do to improve your quality of life. If you’re in a relationship, you may want to put making that relationship more open and honest at the top of your list. Many couples tend to just let their relationships take care of themselves and hope that the issues just take care of themselves. Then they’ll argue every day and start disliking each other.

Ignoring your relationship isn’t the best way to keep it going in a positive direction. If you want your relationship to be a happy one, you have to work on it. There are some things that you can do to keep your relationship going strong as well as continually happy.

Have a look at these following tips to help improve your relationship:

Say the magic words: Telling your partner “thank you” and asking “please” shows them how much they’re appreciated. It also prevents you from taking them for granted.

Get physical: Grab your partner’s butt to show them how hot you think they are.

Kiss each morning: This promises to get your day off to a great start.

Greet each other with a “good morning”: Acknowledgement of each other daily shows how much you care.

Make time to cuddle: Physical closeness goes a long way to keeping warmth, excitement and love in a relationship.

Don’t isolate yourselves: Resolve to get out at least once a week together with family or friends.

Don’t over use pet names: When you use them too much, it can end up keeping you from taking each other seriously, which can damage your relationship.

Practice listening skills: Couples need to listen to each other as well as be able to communicate effectively.

Take turns doing the dishes or loading the dishwasher: Sharing chores can keep your relationship on equal footing.

Be honest: You should be honest with each other even when it’s not easy.

Play the Decision Game: When neither of you can decide which restaurant you want to eat at or what movie you want to see, one of you names 5 choices. The other partner vetoes 2 of these. The first partner then eliminates the last 2. Now you have your decision.

Respect each other’s private space: This is particularly important when you live together. Each of you should have a place to retreat to for a little while to have time to yourselves.
When you follow these simple steps to improving your relationship and keeping it happy, you’ll find that this was the best resolution of them all. You and your partner will continue to have a healthy relationship in which you can both feel comfortable and excited about. Also, when you really think about it, these steps are actually things that you should have been doing all along.

Thanx for reading through the whole article and please feel free to read more of my articles and pages on HowToGetLoverBack and also check out my other blogs;)

Dick Scott

• Relationship Blogs
• HowToGetLoverBack
• wearegettingbacktogether.com
• bestwaystogetherback.com
•  willmyexbeback.com  
• Financial Freedom Blogs
• digitalbloggers.com/eagleeye/
• thesixfigurementor.blogspot.se/
• contrivenow.blogspot.se/
• My Reiki Blog
• Reiki Center
• Dick Scotts Poetry&Music Blogs
• eagleeyemessages.blogspot.com
• dickscotts.blogspot.com
• dickscott.wordpress.com
• Humour Blog with jokes and funny videos
• vitsar-dscott.blogspot.se

Ways Women Destroy Their Relationships

Greetings to all you good people! Todays article Ways Women Destroy Their Relationships may seem a little offensive if you think only women can destroy their relationship. I think we are all sometimes part of a destructive pattern in our life and our relationship. I also believe that most of these patterns has to  do with the past and even goes back to events in our childhood.

Light&Love to all of you;)

Dick Scott

Women seem to be more invested in keeping their relationships together than men do, for the most part. However, on the other hand, they also tend to unknowingly destroy their relationships in some very simple and silly ways. Once they start, it’s usually very hard to fix things.

For one thing, women can be just too nice. You don’t want to tell a guy that he’s rude and that he’s being disrespectful of you. Worse yet, you don’t like to even admit there’s anything wrong, so you stay quiet. It’s so much better to tell him what an ass he’s being rather than let it fester.

In the beginning, couples go out all the time. Eventually, they start staying in more and more and spending quiet evenings at home having dinner and watching a movie. Don’t panic because this is normal. Relax and don’t force him into going out a lot when he doesn’t want to.

You need to understand that you’ve got to do your own thing. Of course, when the relationship is new, you want to be together constantly. However, don’t let that keep you from spending time with your friends and family, too. He also needs to do that. It keeps your relationship from becoming suffocating.

Maybe at first, you and your boyfriend used to have sex 3 or 4 times daily but that can’t last and it shouldn’t. That doesn’t mean that you should just sit back and be ok with sex totally dwindling out of your relationship. But throwing a fit isn’t good, either. That’s not really going to make you any sexier to him. If it gets serious enough, talk about it calmly.

Just because other couples you know are constantly going out and doing exciting things and having adventures doesn’t mean that’s right for you and your boyfriend. When you start comparing your relationship with others, it only puts a damper on yours. Don’t start questioning the type of relationship you have if you’re happy in it.

Some women just need to try too hard. It’s not helpful if you suddenly start greeting him in sexy lingerie and candlelit dinners all the time. He’s going to feel the pressure of having to match your efforts. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t do something nice sometimes, but you can just be normal once you’ve won each other.

Insecurity is one of the most unattractive features that a woman can have. There’s no reason that you should have to constantly say I love you all the time to each other. Don’t force it and only say it when it feels natural. If you start asking him 20 times a day if he really loves you, he’s going to get really tired of it. Refrain from doing this because no man wants to have to be FORCED to say those words. He’ll say them when he feels them and you need to be happy with that.
Avoid those things that can destroy a perfectly great relationship and you’ll find that you’ll be a much happier person. If your on the edge and need some professional advice i urge you to take a look at this;)

Most Informative about relationship…

“hey Tdub! how’s it goin’? i watched your video, and i must say, it’s the most *and you’re the most* informative person i know when it comes to what to do about a break up.”

Dianna

Ways Women Destroy Their Relationships

Greetings to all you good people! Todays article Ways Women Destroy Their Relationships may seem a little offensive if you think only women can destroy their relationship. I think we are all sometimes part of a destructive pattern in our life and our relationship. I also believe that most of these patterns has to  do with the past and even goes back to events in our childhood.

Light&Love to all of you;)

Dick Scott

Women seem to be more invested in keeping their relationships together than men do, for the most part. However, on the other hand, they also tend to unknowingly destroy their relationships in some very simple and silly ways. Once they start, it’s usually very hard to fix things.

For one thing, women can be just too nice. You don’t want to tell a guy that he’s rude and that he’s being disrespectful of you. Worse yet, you don’t like to even admit there’s anything wrong, so you stay quiet. It’s so much better to tell him what an ass he’s being rather than let it fester.

In the beginning, couples go out all the time. Eventually, they start staying in more and more and spending quiet evenings at home having dinner and watching a movie. Don’t panic because this is normal. Relax and don’t force him into going out a lot when he doesn’t want to.

You need to understand that you’ve got to do your own thing. Of course, when the relationship is new, you want to be together constantly. However, don’t let that keep you from spending time with your friends and family, too. He also needs to do that. It keeps your relationship from becoming suffocating.

Maybe at first, you and your boyfriend used to have sex 3 or 4 times daily but that can’t last and it shouldn’t. That doesn’t mean that you should just sit back and be ok with sex totally dwindling out of your relationship. But throwing a fit isn’t good, either. That’s not really going to make you any sexier to him. If it gets serious enough, talk about it calmly.

Just because other couples you know are constantly going out and doing exciting things and having adventures doesn’t mean that’s right for you and your boyfriend. When you start comparing your relationship with others, it only puts a damper on yours. Don’t start questioning the type of relationship you have if you’re happy in it.

Some women just need to try too hard. It’s not helpful if you suddenly start greeting him in sexy lingerie and candlelit dinners all the time. He’s going to feel the pressure of having to match your efforts. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t do something nice sometimes, but you can just be normal once you’ve won each other.

Insecurity is one of the most unattractive features that a woman can have. There’s no reason that you should have to constantly say I love you all the time to each other. Don’t force it and only say it when it feels natural. If you start asking him 20 times a day if he really loves you, he’s going to get really tired of it. Refrain from doing this because no man wants to have to be FORCED to say those words. He’ll say them when he feels them and you need to be happy with that.
Avoid those things that can destroy a perfectly great relationship and you’ll find that you’ll be a much happier person. If your on the edge and need some professional advice i urge you to take a look at this;)

Most Informative about relationship…

“hey Tdub! how’s it goin’? i watched your video, and i must say, it’s the most *and you’re the most* informative person i know when it comes to what to do about a break up.”

Dianna